I'm thankful!

This Thanksgiving, I have much to be thankful for, not the least of which is Holly's good health and research that could result in truly effective treatment for her in the future. When she was diagnosed in 1979, the average life expectancy was 18, and now it's double that. Holly is much healthier at this stage than we ever dared hope. She is married to a wonderful man, and nine years ago, she gave birth to a precious little girl, Murren.

In October, Holly was hospitalized for lung and sinus infections. She had minor sinus surgery to clean her out and relieve the sinus headaches that had become daily occurrences. She was in for a week then went home on IV, oral and inhaled antibiotics. After she finished the antibiotics, it took her a couple of weeks to recover from the effects of the antibiotics, then she really started to feel better. Yea!

One of the interesting things, which I've noted here earlier, is that every time she's sick it's like the first time all over again. I always hurt and grieve for her and the normal life that she strives for, but will never really be. I try not to be over-dramatic, and I know that Holly does all the things she does, including hositalizations so that she can live a life that as close as possible to normal.

I have to also say that I'm thankful for Holly's attitude toward it all. She may feel awful, but she rarely complains. She's an amazing woman who is an exceptional mom, a great daughter, and, from what I've heard from others, a generous friend. I don't know how she has the energy to do all that she does.

I must also say that I'm thankful for Don Pfender, the young man who convinced my husband and I to have another child after Holly, despite the contrary advice of physicians. Because of him and his wise words, we had Vanessa Elizabeth Dawn. (Dawn is in honor of Don Pfendner.) Vanessa is my second personified blessing. Elizabeth means encourager, and she truly is. When she was small, we called her our cheerleader. She knows just what to say and do to encourage me just when I need it.

Thanksgiving is a truly special time for me with so much to be thankful for. I hope you'll join me this season in expressing gratitude for the many people and things we have to celebrate.